Rosie and Me...And Eli Makes Three!!!: We're Here!

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

We're Here!

We are, indeed, home. Nice that I've been able to post photos and updates, huh? I feel that Rosie and Eli have such loyal fans and their meanie mommy can't get it together enough to post!

I promise I will post photos soon - along with an update.

I have been in a major learning curve - trying to figure out how to do about 100 things at once. I had to go back to work about a week after Eli came home so that has been quite an adjustment. I think I've got most of it figured out - and I've managed to find time to sleep - but that means no computer, no internet, no eating (just kidding about the no eating - unfortunately I've managed to find time for that.) Rosemary still doesn't sleep well - she has terrible night terrors. However, I have learned some new things that I hope will help - and help me sleep, too! I feel like I'm just catching up on sleep - and about a million other things.

I should mention the most important thing going on: Eli is beautiful - and smart - and wonderful. He is a dream come true. He's happy, he sleeps through the night, he's so easy..... Rosemary is busy and learning so much. She is becoming more like a little girl and less like a baby every day. I am sad to see her babyhood go, but I love seeing the little girl she's becoming.

I am tired. I am busy. I am frazzled. But - when my head hits the pillow at night - I am content. I am thankful that all my babies (furry and otherwise as I call it) are happy and safe and healthy. I love knowing all my little ducklings are under one roof - and that I'm the mommy. Life could not be better. This is what I've waited for my entire life. What a beautiful, kind gift God has given me.

2 comments:

jajbs said...: YEAH!!! A post!!! Can't wait to see pictures of them!!!

It will get easier!!!!! Hang in there... you are doing great!

amanda; April 22, 2008 at 10:13 PM
Mom 4 Kids said...: Hugs!!! You are doing great!!!; April 25, 2008 at 10:27 PM

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List of Terms

Gotcha Day: The day when an adoptive family takes custody of their child forever.
DNA: Each child must complete two DNA tests. The first DNA test is taken with the birthmom in the same room. The birthmom holds the baby and they both have their mouths swabbed. The samples are then sent to a lab in the United States. The results and the photo of the birthmom and child are taken and then sent to the embassy and to the adoptive parents. I have photos and a full DNA map for both children! And, the 2nd test is taken with only the child (see "Orange.") So, my children are biological siblings - and I can prove it! : )
Pink: This is the big one! This is the color of the slip that was given out (even with Rosie's adoption) that tells you when your final embassy appointment can take place. This means you can go home two days later! Embassy appointment one day, visa appointment the next and home the following day! The slips are now emailed so they aren't pink. But - it's still called pink in the adoption community.
Orange: The color of slip that is given when the US embassy reviews your approved adoption documents. This slip allows you to go get your child's 2nd DNA test taken to make sure your baby is the same one whose DNA was taken originally. Got that? Sigh.....Craziness! At least it's a safeguard to help children and families. It adds about 2 weeks to the process.
Dossier: The ton of paperwork that has to be notarized, then certified by the Secretary of State in the state from which the document came, then authenticated by the Guatemalan consulate in the US that is in the region for that state
FC: Family Court, social worker interview takes place with bmom. They really interview her to be sure she is of sound mind and her reasons are legitimate. All documents and information are then ruled on by a judge.
POA: Power of Attorney, usually done as soon as child is referred to an adoptive parent
PGN: like our attorney general's office, final step to finalizing adoption
Fmom: fostermom
Bmom: birthmom
PA: Pre-Approval from the US Embassy

My Book List!

"If Kisses Were Colors" by Janet Lawler and Alison Jay. This is my second favorite of my mommy favorite books. We save it until the end of the reading time when she's getting very sleepy. I read it several times on the micro-cassette tapes I sent to Guatemala. There's just something about this book that makes me think we're making memories with it.
"Over the Moon: An Adoption Tale" by Karen Katz.
"Many-Colored Blessings" Little Blessings book.
"Thank You, God!" Another Little Blessings book. I prefer the board books in these - it's a lot easier for Rosie to flip through the pages.
"God Loves You" a Little Blessings Picture Book by Kathleen Long Bostrom and Elena Kucharik. These Little Blessings books are precious! I want them all! The illustrator of "Care Bears" is the illustrator of these books. They teach about God, love, creation, unconditional love, color differences and more!
Sesame Street "We're Different, We're the Same" by Bobbi Kates and Joe Mathieu. This is a super book that teaches about our differences in such a sweet, fun way using the characters of Sesame Street. I highly recommend this one.